What Has Become Of Our Society

I have to qualify myself from all prejudices when writing this article. Reflexology is a well-known therapy that helps the body to do its own healing.

However, the authenticity of such health business is doubted where unscrupulous operators have brought a bad name to this industry.

Just take a ride around any new township and you will never miss the emergence of foot reflexology, promulgating health services.

Karaoke lounges stand sedentary decorated with faint multi-coloured lights have their days numbered. They have lost their appeal to the new breed of so called “health seekers” flocking surreptitiously to such avenue for their salacious journey into the forbidden world to satisfy their lecherous desires.

Thanks to the “China Dolls” who have landed on our shores to bring a world of new adventure for men to explore a new horizon of sexual escapade. “Health seekers” my foot, it is all about sexual indulgence to be precise!

Well, our debate could go on and over again with same old tune sang to please oneself. Jug after jug of beer is flowing like a cascading waterfall and as usual one “drink-too-many” syndrome ruled the evening. That was what I was hoping for to hear their tales of their cheating ways.

The blessing is that I am allergic to alcohol, and glass after glass of coke on the rock kept me sane enough to be amused by their high-octane adventures with traces of hilarity.

Man is promiscuous by nature. I wonder are there ways for women to keep their men from cheating on them? Of course there are, but man is one step ahead most of the time except for those “dumbos” who are literally caught with their pants down.

In this contemporary, catching one’s spouse (especially man) for cheating is merely a waste of effort. It is unlike yesteryears where the look out signs to catch infidelity through her spouse’s demeanour, sudden change in grooming, the tell-tale smell of perfume and his excuses for coming home late, and thanks to reflexology, it has significantly reduced the level of suspicion.

China dolls and with no string attached, is the best great escape from any suspicion for infidelity.

For the worst case scenario when confronted or seen emerging from such “paradise” one can easily substantiate his innocence by claiming foot massage, yeah – foot massage that is, my foot!

For some, they can afford to “own” a sweet young thing to satisfy their sexual gratifications. And to be in the trendy mode of rent-a-wife scheme, this has become a dangerous trend to break marriages.

The danger lies in obsession deriving from sexual fantasy and such compulsive sexual behaviour seems to be morally accepted sexual norm that is wantonly displayed in public because no one questions its legality.

Sometimes people find themselves in periodic situations where they discover that they are sexually attracted to the opposite gender. When the obsessive desire for the person grows beyond the boundary of sanity, then the libido will go awry.

What about women whose spouses who go under the pretext of seeking foot massage but with a hidden agenda are known to them?

Then the knots of trusts are broken which threaten the institution of marriage to be smashed asunder. The sensible women will not risk the future of their children and choose to live with it silently, but the capable women without financial constraints will choose otherwise – as single parent.

Children from single parent will become more difficult to up-bring and the toll on the mother will become more unbearable. She has her career to look after, her children to nurture and her own sexual needs to be appeased.

Sex is never pre-planned, an innocent hug with teases seem to be the norm but what the eyes see and how the body feels will remain hidden. When the willing body responds to trigger the drifting pleasure on the other, the inevitable sexual feelings will pirouette with the sensational thrills to pamper the libido.

Say what you like, the age-old taboo is never thought to happen even when there is a chance of being discovered, yet it cuts through the taboo to the core.

Sex among willing adults will never be felt wrong. What people do within the four walls is meant to be private even sinfully indulged between two willing partners. In any situation of a person’s life that falls into such unfortunate category, the unforgiving sexual gratifications will even supersede the tenacious beliefs of any God fearing individuals.

Come what may, when libido must be appeased, what the eyes see, the mind will desire the impeccably crafted anatomy. The physical attraction will cloud the mind and lead to the threshold of more daring attempts for physical contacts will inevitably make the body speaks with only one language – Sex.

In this fast changing society where environment changes people’s outlook and behaviour about sex, no matter in what disguises, is frightening indeed. It is a game played by two willing individuals and the risk of being caught is the additional element in the excitement to thrill the libido or is it for one’s needs?

Be it infidelity or extra-marital affair that is commonly indulged by cheating partners, it comes from various situations especially when opportunities prevail.

Such illicit indulgence will keep sailing into the uncharted waters of sexual gratifications and with men piloting the ship, reflexology outlets in disguise will stay perennial.