Mystery - Least Expected

Sometimes in life, what is expected to happen will bring disappointments, but when what is least expected to happen, it comes knocking at the door.

Take love for instance; we should not marry a person that we know we can live with; only marry someone that we cannot live without. It sounds great but the trouble is that love is sometimes blind!

Then, why love is blind? I guess love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction. Sigh… which direction then? I will rather believe that love is like a butterfly, where it settles upon you when you least expect it to happen.

An instance of misfortune (which is common) is what anyone least expected to happen.

What about other complex incidents such as an explosion of gas? Photosynthesis, nervous systems, and DNA formation could have planned by “someone” out there. This is not easily explained like any misfortunes which may happen out of sheer recklessness, as pranks or ignorance.

Everything happens with and for a reason. It is either to be a predator or otherwise. No matter what, the cycle of life has to keep rotating.

Naughtiness can be deliberate or out of one’s complacency. No matter how it is going to happen, the timing is all one needs to witness the eventful sight.

Curiosity is like an exploration in a child’s mind. Curiosity killed the proverbial cat. However, curiosity is one of the most important aspects of life. It is through curiosity, a desire to find out something that is kept “undiscovered” and to bury that curiosity is to expose the truth. So when this happens, the least expected will prevail.

When a man sees a scantily clad woman, her appearance raises his curiosity, and he decides to make contact with her to satisfy that curiosity. The woman, on the other hand, depending upon how he approaches her, can become curious about him, or not wish to find out about him.

Body language plays the important role to decipher the hidden message. However, for the fertile young stallion, the “anatomy language” says it all.

With a little help from his friends is the least expected moment that could be captured with a camera.

It is true that some women have been using testosterone gels and creams obtained from compounding pharmacies in an effort to boost a waning sex drive, often brought on by menopause. With the added help to put a bit more octane in the “old engine” is never wrong as what one wants to assume it to be.

When healthy women squirm, it means their territory has been invaded so it is better for the men to buzz off. When she squirms in the bed is entirely a different story. Ahem!

This Mrs.Cock is damn proud to announce who she is. Sheesh…

There are other causes that may not be as apparent, such as problems with gait, balance and muscle function that come with age and affects those above 65. According to studies, about one-third of those aged above 65 will experience one or more falls per year, and 90% of all non-vertebral fractures are from falls. Dr Erich Schacht.

If anyone can run those 10 seconds uphill as fast as he can, then there is nothing better for developing speed and muscle power. All athletes know it. And when the same momentum is used on a flat land, it is a different kettle of fish because of the way gravity is defied.

Clip: PC Tan

So there is nothing wrong when a gaffe happens in the least expected moment and we should accept it, be it intentional or unintentional. This is what life is all about!

Beauty and Nature

The beauty of nature is painted across the sky with the psychedelic colours to tease the mind and down on earth where shadows in still water dance, they are nevertheless with emotions where an angel might share.

The spectacles from the mountain top in the dewy morning are breathtaking where orchards in blossom down the valley hold the divine beauty. This brings a new day of serenity fills with hope that Nature could offer.

All living things are natural beauty to delight what the eyes behold. The creation of such beauties is the divine art drawn on the pages of Nature.

Mystery - Seductive Girls

The fact is, most women have curvaceous body and there is no reason for them to hide it. Her front or her rear is the asset that encased on her feminine petite frame, anchored on by her shapely legs and harnessed by silky skin is enough to make men frost in the mouth.

Is it a fact or fancy to say that a girl can make a man go nuts with her tight jeans, seductive look, unbuttoned top and eager postures?

It is a well-known truth that some girls are eager to tease and enjoy the curiosity of her “fans” going “ga-ga” looking at her premeditated inviting poses.

If a girl is the naughtiest, then she can seduce anyone like a magic wand in her hand to zap at will.

A woman’s smile is the magic and the way she holds herself clearly makes her look confident and approachable will be the sure bet to capture a continual look. Then look into his eyes and imitate the “Garfield eyes” and his eyes are sure to dilate and scream, “Are you sure?”

Women should remember this faithful adage: Eyes without speaking confess the secrets of the heart.

Even fully clothed, a woman can drive a man crazy! The seductive look is the ultimate weapon to make men disorientated in his thinking faculty. It is cruel to ignite that naughty feeling but it is fun to see even a hunk becomes smitten.

With just a flip of the hair, a sultry glance, and a killer smile and the rest will be history. This is subtle yet effective ways of luring that special someone to get interested or to tease his libido.

This is the way to flirt and flirting is a way to impress a male with your natural beauty and personality, whether planned or natural.

Wearing the correct choice of clothes that compliment your body and makeup that enhance your facial features are the killer blows. Semi-nakedness is teasing but does not hold the personality of a woman, but a tormenting excitement in the eyes of the beholders.

Eye contact is an extremely useful tactic that a woman can use to her advantage. Normally, a man will stare at your face when you are having a conversation. He will start looking down and shifting his feet if he begins to feel uncomfortable with excitement. He is giving the tell-tale signs of being attracted to you - smiling, leaning in, keeping eye contact and the cutest of all, lost in words. Then, try touching him subtly on his shoulder slightly when talking or give him a joking push, and you will see that his world goes upside down smiling like a fool. This is where he will “lust” for you.

Well, if you want to try, you have to try at your own risk.

This is the reason why men are pampered by god.

God created a woman, and she had 3 breasts.He said to the woman, "Is there anything on you that you'd like to change?"

She said, "Yes. Could you get rid of this middle breast?"

God snapped his fingers and it was done.

She exclaimed, holding the third breast in her hand, "What am I going to do with this useless boob?"

And God created man.

Have you ever wondered what is so amazing by his look? Of course, he has not seen a ghost but the unprecedented sight of a portrait hanging right before him. Is he bewildered by what he is seeing or bewitched by it?

At this precise moment, his time has stood still and he is bewitched!

This is what has bewitched him!

Let us take a peek into a woman’s mind to gauge her taste for man.

Is it the men sexy and dashing good looks make them appealing to women? Many women openly admitted that a man who has a firm butt is a sure attraction. True, what a woman first notices is his anatomical assets but what lingers in her mind is not all that.

When a man who languidly struts across the room with a show of adequacy and grace and the way he flashes the glint in his eyes will ultimately creates the spark in him. Such masculine self suggests flaunting his large body build will trigger a woman’s instinctive feelings of attraction.

A man who knows how to have eye contact, like a woman who knows, is a man who knows how to communicate. Such demand from both the genders will make it extremely special for one another.

If a man looks good and smells even better, women are bound to swarm around him, and with that special eye contact will make her melt on the spot.

Eversince women were given the ability and rights to refuse a man, men had to work harder at being desirable. Some work harder than others, but let us not discount that different women have different tastes, what appeals to one, may not appeal to another.

In retrospect, women did not have a choice in a mate, they were simply chosen. Women then, had to play the role of being attractive in order for her to be protected and provided for. Finally, in this contemporary, they are given some abilities in some cultures to accept or reject a man’s advances, and this has made her special in her own rights!

So, for man and woman alike, keep yourself healthy and sexy. Remember eye contact, but not to scrutinize each other like the eyes of “dawningeyes!”

Mystery – Why Condoms?

Every ten seconds, a man, woman, or child in Africa dies from an AIDS-related disease. According to the USAIDS/World Health Organization (WHO), 40.3 million people now live with HIV infections, two-thirds of them in sub-Saharan Africa. In Swaziland, 42.6 percent of pregnant women test positive for HIV.

There's no cure for this killer, and no end in sight. The United Nations predicts that if present trends continue, AIDS will claim an additional 65 million lives by 2020-more than triple the number of those who died in the first 20 years of the pandemic. (Sue Ellin Browder)

There is no excuse not to talk about condoms. First, get to know what it is.

A condom is a fine rubber sheath that is rolled on to a man’s penis before sex. A condom acts as a barrier, preventing sperm and infections passing between sexual partners.

If you are getting very close with someone, communication is very important. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to insist that you or your partner wears a condom. The best time to talk about it is before you have sex but not in the heat of the moment!

Is it embarrassing to buy and carry condoms?

It is a lot more embarrassing to get or pass on an STD (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) and AIDS. If anyone is too embarrassed to deal with condoms, they are probably not ready to deal with sex.

The Vatican encourages sexual abstinence to fight the spread of the disease. It believes marital fidelity and sexual abstinence are the best way to prevent the spread of HIV.

Condoms help to prevent unwanted pregnancies and population control. Sexual abstinence to fight AIDS will be a fallacious notion because humans cannot live forever without sex.

The contention to use condom or not, should lie in the participants by first creating awareness of the risks they are going to take with their promiscuous partners. However, by sticking to your own spouse is the safest bet.

The Funny Side Of Condom

A giant size condom is just for show unless it is for goliath! Sex education should start at young age but to be too imaginative can be a problem.

A cleaver advertisement with a simple message – Don’t be stupid! Wear one!

Beijing, hosted in 2007 an amazing fashion show with beautiful Chinese models wearing clothes and accessories made from condoms. This condom fashion show was a great success.

After all, condom has its purpose for practical use and a creative way to send the message of how it could save life.

Mystery - Stolen Childhood

These are the faces we should be seeing everyday no matter where we are in this world. Unfortunately, not all the children are that lucky to be able to put on their smiling faces.

In Asia alone, 22 % of children below 18 years are child workers. In Latin America 17 %, and 1% in US, Canada and Europe. In both these continents, only a tiny proportion of child workers are involved in the formal sector and the vast majority is for their families, in homes, in the fields or on the streets. – Unicef’s 1997 State of the World’s Children Report.

With a little luck, I managed to pick up this latest news.

Five assistant labour commissioners appointed under State Action Plan prepared by Labour and Employment Department

In A bid to eliminate child labour from Gujarat, the government has appointed five additional assistant labour sommissioners under the State Action Plan for Elimination of Child Labour prepared by the Labour and Employment Department. May 16, 2009

People cry for specific reason especially emotion related factors. Hunger does not make people cry, but the bondage of exploitation (physically, mentally and morally) will.

Child labour is often mistaken by its nature of work. Young children are seen in hawker centres or night markets helping their parents after school. This is not forced and bonded labour, but family obligation for survival.

But in different parts of Asia or the world, children live differently.

In the Indian subcontinent, which includes India, Nepal, and Bangladesh, there are people living on less than a dollar a day. Poverty drives the children out of home to look for cheap and exploited employment.

The prime cause of poverty derives from the pressure of rapid population growth. With high illiteracy rate, health care and birth control are beyond their understanding.

Caste discrimination still prevails, where weak governance and corruption are the added miseries to this marginalized group of people.

The emphasis on education is lost because to work for money to buy food to fill the stomachs is more important than going to school with empty stomachs.

However, to say that the exploitation for cheap labour is despicable is rather contentious because of the excess “manpower”. When there are more mouths to feed, more jobs are in demand, and to be able to hire more it means the wage to pay a single worker is used to pay for a few.

Is this call exploitation or opportunity given to those who are in the dire need to survive? The argument here does not lie in the exploitation of cheap labour, but good governance is missing which subjugated the people to such deplorable condition of living a decent life!

Blame it on corruption and the greed to remove the resources that people are much depended on.

Working for pittance has become a way of life for these unfortunate children. Such vicious cycle can only end when birth rate is controlled and proper education is emphasized by the government.

Such unfortunate children did not ask to be born and yet they are here to live a deprived life. Child labour will not end because the young girls will get married off and the production of the next generation of child labour will continue.

Such young girls will fall prey to child trafficking for sexual exploitation. When poverty and unemployment set in, the legal system provides little legal protection especially for these vulnerable young girls.

There must be a great stride in poverty reduction otherwise the fate of such children will end up like commodity to trade for their survival.

Illiteracy will not give anyone the voice of freedom. Beggars cannot be choosers so to speak. Any unwanted “crumbs” that are offered will be grabbed instantly, and that is the little luxury that makes the difference in their kind of life.

Why me? This is the question that is difficult to answer. Is it their karmic repercussion to be born into poverty or are they here for a purpose – a purpose to be in the league of stolen childhood of deprived children?

Mystery – The Beauty Of Weddings

To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage - Lao Tzu

With the months of planning, you ensure nothing will go wrong on your wedding day. No one will conceivably imagine what could go wrong. I will tell you what could go wrong. Seriously, what could go wrong would go wrong no matter how you think.

Whether you will be wearing a new gown that you have chosen for yourself, one borrowed from a good friend, be it simple or extravagant, your wedding gown holds a very special place in your heart to capture the splendor and festivity of your wedding day.

You have to take precaution because there will be no fairy godmother of wedding gowns to magically protect you even on your wedding day. So, whatever you choose to wear, make the effort to look your best for the bride and groom.

Anecdote

A couple goes out to dinner to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. On the way home, she notices a tear in his eye and asks if he's getting sentimental because they are celebrating 50 wonderful years together. He replies, 'No, I was thinking about the time before our nuptials. Your father threatened me with a shotgun and said he would have me thrown in jail for 50 years if I didn't marry you. Tomorrow I would've been a free man!'

He could be marrying the girl next door and knowing too late about his demanding parents-in-law. “Help Me?”

Too late my friend, you make the bed and you should lay on it or rather you have got “laid.”

Wedding ceremonies take all forms -- from religious to poetic, musical, or humorous. Whatever the vibe, let the bride and groom set the tone and you follow their lead. If anyone is normally the loud, life-of-the-party type, tone down and let the wedding couple stand out. Do not steal the show!

If the bride blushes, it could be from pride, joy, or sheer love. It is not because someone just stood up and told a humiliating story or bawdy jokes. There should be no over drinking, and no overly sexy dancing.

If the wedding couple has strange affinity for sexual arousal, then the adage, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder holds water.

A simple reason to hold wedding celebrations is to enjoy oneself and to start married life in a super positive spirit. He is going to miss his “first night” encounter or he had one too many already!

When thing is going to go wrong, it has to go right at the unexpected moment. This is the case where the unexpected one could hold no longer. Call it skeleton in the closet is exposed or just plain affection, but in a wedding?

A man has to do what he has to do no matter where he is!

By organizing your wedding day transportation in advance, you are going to be able to get a car that is perfect for your wedding party. It does not matter anyway, because they are such a sport!

It is the ideal way that even the bride’s maid and best man could travel together.